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Post by dblondepimpett on Jan 18, 2011 0:52:23 GMT -5
Ahhh lol I have no idea what this just did... but count it as a double post for some odd reason.
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Post by Aussie Karima on Jan 18, 2011 2:34:39 GMT -5
 Lovely Siggy, if you want it to sit central use the icons above in messages,or Siggy[ /center] any problems Pm one of us or me!lol!  ~ Ps no spaces!lol!
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Post by valpre1983 on Jan 18, 2011 2:38:52 GMT -5
I already sent her the code to make it clickable and centralised  It should be fine once she updates her profile. |
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Post by dblondepimpett on Jan 19, 2011 2:50:45 GMT -5
bump Chapter 8
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Post by valpre1983 on Jan 19, 2011 3:08:50 GMT -5
I don't know how I missed this, but I've added it on my read list for today.
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Post by Aussie Karima on Jan 19, 2011 5:05:56 GMT -5
~ Sorry I did leave a very long message for you,but when I hit post,it told me access forbidden!I will try again later! 
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Post by valpre1983 on Jan 19, 2011 12:22:53 GMT -5
It's so sad that it had to boil down to this. I was hoping Naomi wouldn't push everyone away, and stick to her therapy, but obviously her wounds are still too deep, and demons have a firm grasp on her soul. Let's hope the time away at the clinic does wonders for her.
And now I'm confused about Denise' decision; I get she wants to do the whole independence thing, and take care of Dean, but she shouldn't have let things go that far with Jake.
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Post by jillyson on Jan 19, 2011 12:49:04 GMT -5
Oh, man. Denise - I can't believe you did that! This man has stuck by you and loves your son, and you're pushing him away! I hope, once she wraps her head around him getting her that job, that she'll realize her mistake. I'm glad it's out in the open about them to Naomi now, but they should've been cool about it and told her much sooner.
Poor Naomi. I really hoped she'd be able to pull herself together, but as hard as this was for her, she really needed it. I hope she can forgive her dad and Kraig. I hope she's had enough therapy where she can at least kiss him again. I miss the two of them together, and I know Kraig does, too.
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Post by dblondepimpett on Jan 19, 2011 18:01:59 GMT -5
Aussie on your comment from the LJ Sorry I wrote this one really late at night to early in the morning... Denise wasn't using Jake.... things between them will make more sense in chapter 9. The reason for her leaving him will make a little more sense later as well. All it said in this chapter was that she had time to think about things after she got her job... the things she thought about were stupid but end up being her main reason... this will come in chapter 9. As for Naomi's dad he has some issues to work out or something! lol He does this whole hot and cold thing with his daughter. He loves her and wants the best for her... but anytime she shows signs of her mothers traits he doesn't want anything to do with her.... He is afraid that no one can help her because He loved her mother and he couldn't help her.... So he is afraid that nothing they do will work for Naomi...but then that is where he came up with the having her sent to a clinic... They had no choice but to do it the way they did because she would have refused to have gone until she basically would kill herself... I hope this clears a few things up... like I said though most of the Denise thing gets described in Chapter 9. Val- The clinic certainly will help... and in the end she will be thankful for it As for Denise though... she wasn't planning to break up with Jake so soon. She loves him and he loves her which is why it went as far as it did... Denise just had a lot of reacuring thoughts crossing her mind that she let get to her... They end up being stupid little things although important things as well... It will be described in chapter 9 though. Jilly- She doesn't realize that Jake is going to stick around forever, which is one of the things she thought about. She broke her own heart in the process of breaking up with him... does the break up last? Well I have to tell you that I believe in true love conquers all As for Naomi she is really going to need this time away from everyone and everything to get over her fear.. does this mean when she comes back that she is going to jump into Kraigs arms? That will be something to find out in Chapter 9 |
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Post by nygirl on Jan 19, 2011 18:42:08 GMT -5
So sad that it had to come down to this. I can understand her family, friends and loved ones concern for her but you can't just go and stick someone in a clinic and wish them better, they have to be willing to get the help first and foremost, hopefully this will be an eye opener for Naomi and she will want the help!
I know I would harbor a little resentment if someone, especially people that love me, would do such a thing, you can't make someone want to get better, she has gone through such a traumatic experience that maybe she just needs a little time to go through the motions, of course as long as she wasn't a threat to herself and others, and while she is out of control, there is no immediate threat, hopefully in time she will forgive everyone and will get well. Excellent update! |
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Post by dblondepimpett on Jan 19, 2011 23:26:54 GMT -5
So sad that it had to come down to this. I can understand her family, friends and loved ones concern for her but you can't just go and stick someone in a clinic and wish them better, they have to be willing to get the help first and foremost, hopefully this will be an eye opener for Naomi and she will want the help!
I know I would harbor a little resentment if someone, especially people that love me, would do such a thing, you can't make someone want to get better, she has gone through such a traumatic experience that maybe she just needs a little time to go through the motions, of course as long as she wasn't a threat to herself and others, and while she is out of control, there is no immediate threat, hopefully in time she will forgive everyone and will get well. Excellent update! Unfortunatly Naomi would have never gotten help on her own. I had done turned wheels in my head on what would happen if they send her to the clinic... Alternate if she didnt get sent--Naomi would have gotten unto drugs, Kraig would have tried to stay by her side but then eventually would have gotten fed up because she would end up in bed with another druggie. Then Denise would end up losing her job because she would have to constantly have to leave work to go help Naomi. Naomi would start feeling pathetic because Kraig left her and she would live with junkies. Denise would get fed up with her as well because she would lose custody of Dean because she lost her job. Jake and Denise would no longer have hopes to be with each other because Denise didn't have time to rekindle things with him because once again at that time she was too budy dealing with Naomi.... In the end Naomi would have killed herself on an OD..... I know lol it was weird how I thought about that! I really get into character haha. |
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Post by nygirl on Jan 20, 2011 0:08:03 GMT -5
So sad that it had to come down to this. I can understand her family, friends and loved ones concern for her but you can't just go and stick someone in a clinic and wish them better, they have to be willing to get the help first and foremost, hopefully this will be an eye opener for Naomi and she will want the help!
I know I would harbor a little resentment if someone, especially people that love me, would do such a thing, you can't make someone want to get better, she has gone through such a traumatic experience that maybe she just needs a little time to go through the motions, of course as long as she wasn't a threat to herself and others, and while she is out of control, there is no immediate threat, hopefully in time she will forgive everyone and will get well. Excellent update! Unfortunatly Naomi would have never gotten help on her own. I had done turned wheels in my head on what would happen if they send her to the clinic... Alternate if she didnt get sent--Naomi would have gotten unto drugs, Kraig would have tried to stay by her side but then eventually would have gotten fed up because she would end up in bed with another druggie. Then Denise would end up losing her job because she would have to constantly have to leave work to go help Naomi. Naomi would start feeling pathetic because Kraig left her and she would live with junkies. Denise would get fed up with her as well because she would lose custody of Dean because she lost her job. Jake and Denise would no longer have hopes to be with each other because Denise didn't have time to rekindle things with him because once again at that time she was too budy dealing with Naomi.... In the end Naomi would have killed herself on an OD..... I know lol it was weird how I thought about that! I really get into character haha. Not weird at all, I am like that myself set two paths for my characters then decide which way I am going to go depending on how I want the story to flow, I understand your reasoning it was just an observation on my part! |
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Post by dblondepimpett on Jan 20, 2011 0:12:32 GMT -5
realistically you have to go through a lot to have some one put into a place like that since she is of age. Such as court papers and everything. For the purpose of time though I bypassed all of that and went for the kill I am glad you look into depth with it. Lovin your siggie btw |
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Post by nygirl on Jan 20, 2011 1:29:12 GMT -5
realistically you have to go through a lot to have some one put into a place like that since she is of age. Such as court papers and everything. For the purpose of time though I bypassed all of that and went for the kill I am glad you look into depth with it. Lovin your siggie btw Thanks took me nearly two hours to make it just right! And I am always the over-analyzer, I have been through enough traumatic experiences to know how the whole shebang goes, you can't make people want to get better if they don't want to get better. I was in an eight month slump when my father died last year, will be a year next month, and my finacee got so frustrated with me because he would try to help me and I would push him away, luckily he didn't throw me into a clinic, I found great comfort in writing! And I understand why you did it the way you did, I hope that she gets well soon! |
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Post by dblondepimpett on Jan 20, 2011 14:35:49 GMT -5
I am sorry to hear about your father  I dread the day I lose someone close to me... I know one day it will happen... but I just don't want it to. I am glad you found comfort in writing. |
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