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Post by jillyson on Apr 17, 2010 19:53:23 GMT -5
I couldn't believe the things he told me. I've had the occasional "naughty dream" but I most certainly never told the person I dreamt about, let alone graphically describe the act!
One more guy who was not what I thought he was. YUCK!
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Post by Tina ☺ on Apr 17, 2010 20:10:06 GMT -5
That's just too sick...lol. He was definitely after something! I'd have to say that's one friendship that'll never be the same again.
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Post by amylu1988 on Apr 18, 2010 4:29:31 GMT -5
Blimey that's not good; poor you having to listen to it and having nowhere to go if he was leaning on your car! It's a shame, sounds like you had a good friendship before all this, but now he's gone and ruined it.  |
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Post by joandsarah on Apr 18, 2010 5:10:54 GMT -5
Oh yuck. Well you sure know where he stands alright.  Do you have to see him all the time at work? That's going to be very difficult. |
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Post by valpre1983 on Apr 18, 2010 5:53:16 GMT -5
Whoa, I didn't see this one coming >:(I thought he just had a cute innocent crush that would surely go away. I didn't think he was a pervy perv.  Sorry Jill, now look at what he's gone and done, ruing a perfect friendship. I'm so for him |
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Post by jillyson on Apr 18, 2010 20:46:57 GMT -5
It wasn't totally out of left field, like you said Val, I thought maybe it was a silly mistake at best, or an innocent crush at worst. So much for innocent! I sure never expected THAT!
I'm pretty sure I'll never find another guy who just wants to be friends, can discuss Dante's Inferno (thus the nine circles of hell magnets) plus remember that the Groovy Ghoulies were a saturday morning spin-off cartoon from Sabrina the teen-age witch. But if this is the price, I guess I'll take the burping belly-scratchers any day! Lol!
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Post by holleyberry on Apr 18, 2010 20:59:13 GMT -5
 O M G ! ! !
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Post by Tina ☺ on Apr 18, 2010 21:29:19 GMT -5
Don't sweat it too much, Jill. He may have 'remembered'/discussed all things due to ulterior motives the whole time!  I'm quite sure he's been thinking about for WAY longer than he let on. The Valentine's Day thing was simply a 'test' to see what you'd do. |
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Post by jillyson on Apr 18, 2010 21:43:57 GMT -5
You're right. It's just that, even though I wasn't interested in him, it was nice to think there were still descent guys out there somewhere. How creepy to think he was planning this, and worse, for as smart as I thought he was, That was a really stupid thing to do!
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Post by holleyberry on Apr 18, 2010 21:46:33 GMT -5
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Post by jillyson on Apr 18, 2010 21:48:48 GMT -5
 Lol!
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Post by Tina ☺ on Apr 18, 2010 23:11:01 GMT -5
Yeah, it was pretty stupid of him.  |
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Post by Aussie Karima on Apr 19, 2010 10:27:54 GMT -5
Sorry to hear this Jill! But put it this way, you did not lose a friend, because he was not the person he portrayed, or you thought he was! He had ulterior motives & it sounds like he has been thinking on the subject for quite some time,hence the TEST!  Why can't guys be upfront about themselves, I like peeps to be straight forward, & just be them selves, or do we have to say to each potential male friend,'Hey, I am not looking for a replacement for my DH!Just thought I would get that out of the way,seriously! Now we either be friends or not, no in between! GOT IT!' ~ What is the world coming too!?!?!?!
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Post by holleyberry on Apr 19, 2010 11:20:11 GMT -5
Why can't guys be upfront about themselves, I like peeps to be straight forward Yeah! He should have just come to you and said "Jill, I want to rock your World!" |
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Post by joandsarah on Apr 19, 2010 17:04:47 GMT -5
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Do you have to see him all the time at work? That's going to be very difficult.
