Sawyer
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Post by Sawyer on Jun 5, 2009 1:39:32 GMT -5
Lol, so is your son bisexual/gay or is just a side effect from taking the pills? Lol, the only medication I'm on is for my acne (40mg of Clarivis). My mom and I are pretty close, we were the only two in the family until 2004. I think what would be best is to talk to my school counselor when we go back to school. (August) *sob*
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Post by Aussie Karima on Jun 5, 2009 1:54:35 GMT -5
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Post by Sawyer on Jun 5, 2009 2:08:42 GMT -5
Lol, that's kinda like me! (likes guys more than he does girls!) tmi? Oh my, your grown son borrows your clothes? *blink-blink* *blink-blink* That's a little unusual....oh well, if you're cool with it, I'm cool with it. Just as long as he doesn't stretch out the material......in those places!
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Post by Aussie Karima on Jun 5, 2009 3:16:12 GMT -5
Thats why he is not allowed to borrow my cloths anymore, they get stretched in strange places !lol! plus they are too short for him!
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Post by jillyson on Jun 5, 2009 6:05:24 GMT -5
Well, if you've already come out in public, you might as well step all the way out and tell your mom. All this stress from still trying to hide this from the folks can't be good. If you're closer to her, tell her first, alone. Like Karima said, she's your mom, and I'm sure she must have some idea about this. Be prepared for a bad reaction, but once she/they have time to digest that what they may have guessed at is actually a fact, they should be ready to talk after a bit. The stress of dealing with the fall out will be less than the stress of "dropping the bombshell". Your first talk might not go well, but I bet the second one will be much better. If you don't mind me asking, how did it go with the boy at school that you liked? Gosh, I remember being your age and crushing on someone who didn't feel the same. If that happened in your case, just remember that when you're young, your world is smaller. As you get older, your world expands and you're more likely to meet someone who you have more in common with.
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Post by Sawyer on Jun 5, 2009 14:51:51 GMT -5
Wait, Katrina is your son missing? Thanks Jill, I'll try to figure out a way to tell her. It's not like I'm hiding it from her, it's just never come up. We are pretty close, and a lot of her friends know that I'm bisexual (I'm friends with their children and they tell their parents everything). I've read to many stories online about coming out and how the parents disown the kids and stuff.....it can't be that bad. I know she won't believe me at first, but maybe after the second talk she'll understand my feelings. You really want to hear about the guy, Lynda? OK, well here's what happened. *Time Warp* Period One-Social Studies- "Sawyer, who do you like?" asked my friend Abby. "Nobody," I said nonchalantly. "Common, Sawyer. I'll tell you who I like!" said my friend Emily. "Erm, no." "Give us hints," said Sabrea. "What color hair does she have?" asked Emily. "Blondish-Brown, but that doesn't really have an answer." "Is she in our band class, Sawyer?" asked Abby. "No." "Is she in my band class?" asked Emily. "Ummmm.....yes." Hmmmm..... "Could it be Ashlyn?" "Heck no!" "Katelyn?" "Nope." "Hmmm, is she in our math class, Sawyer?" "Yep." "MEGHAN!" Abby shouted, not knowing she had guessed the person-I-liked's sister. "Hillary?" "No." "That's all the people who fit the description!" (after they had guessed about 20 girls). "No it's not," I claimed. "What, is it a guy then?" joked Emily. Blonde Sabrea, in the mean time asked, "Is she in our math class?" Period Two, Gym. (I have Gym with Emily and Sabrea, plus the guy I liked) "Okay, kids, today is a rainy day, so we're going to stay inside. You can play knock-out or walk." said Coach, he threw Cheyenne and Austin they balls for knock-out. I stepped to the side and started walking, seeing as I hate and suck at Basketball. I saw Emily ahead, so I ran to catch up. "Why do you always follow me?!" she said, trying to impress her friends. "Did you figure it out yet?" "Nope, now go away." I did, seeing as I didn't feel like messing with her. Period Four-Science-I sat down next to Emily, "Think about it Emily, who do I like?" "I think I have it figured out. I'll ask you on Glogster, Sawyer." She had a fearful look in her eyes. "Does the person correspond to the last question you asked in Social Studies?" "Yes." Ohmigosh, I had just come out! Later that night- trackrunner12(me): So, who do I like? Pizzafrog(Emily): Austin? trackrunner12: Yep. Pizzafrog: So, you're gay? trackrunner12: Bi, now, who do you like? Apparently, it turned out that she liked Austin too, along with Sabrea, and later Ashlyn (girl we talk to alot). Anyway, in the process of figuring out my sexuality, she told a truckload of people. "God" told her that it wasn't right to keep secrets and she ended up telling Austin. A couple weeks later. trackrunner12: Did Emily tell you something in band today? StraightUpA: Ya, she said u like me. Do u? trackrunner12: I used to, but not anymore. StraightUpA: So are u gay or something. trackrunner12: Ya, I'm bisexual. StraightUpA: No offense or anything, but homosexuality is against the bible. trackrunner12: Please, I already get enough of the *nasty word for poo* from Emily. StraightUpA: The Bible's not *nasty word for poo* man! U should read it sometime! And we haven't talked since then. Sorry, I made that super long, didn't I?
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Post by Pixx on Jun 5, 2009 15:22:58 GMT -5
Wow Karima, if my son borrowed my clothes I would slap him upside the head, not because society tells us that guys don't wear female clothes but because I hate lending cothes out. The other day we went to a movie and my niece borrowed my hoodie that was too small for her (I weight 90lbs and I'm 5"2 and she's like 120 or something and 5"5) and now my hoodie's stretched.
You know Sawyer, it's better that people know cause that closet thing'll totally kill you! I've got a gay uncle, a lesbian aunt and a lesbian cousin. I can't discriminate or be homophobic. I mean a lot of the times I look at the people shying away from others because of their sexuality and...IDK, things like that don't affect me the same way.
Yes Sawyer you did make that pretty long ;D I mean, I believe in the bible but I'm not gonna get all up in someone's face because they like ppl of the same sex or both. So Sawyer, I have so much respect for you the way you came out and was able to be straight up about it.
If you and your mom are close just you know, hang out with her, get all sweet and stuff and then come right out and tell her. If your mom is anything like mine she'll read you your rights and freak out but afterwards she'll sit and think about it then accept that fact that her baby boy likes girls as well as boys.
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Post by Sawyer on Jun 5, 2009 16:10:55 GMT -5
Pixx! You just basically said your cousin was fat! That's mean, yet hilarious! You only way 90 pounds? Holy cow! How old are you? Thanks for not getting all up in my face, Pixx! It seems like that's what almost everybody is like where I live. *sigh* Sorry I made it so long, it wasn't supposed to be shorter! Wait, so you have three homosexual relatives? That's a lot! Are they all on one side of the family tree?! I've decided I'll wait until I'm actually dating a guy to tell her. That could be quite soon, I like this freshman guy and everybody says that he likes me back (woot! dating a high schooler!)
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