lilyflower
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Post by lilyflower on Mar 26, 2009 18:04:14 GMT -5
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joandsarah
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Post by joandsarah on Mar 26, 2009 18:30:52 GMT -5
facebook is another place I stay away from. Just like sim secret I prefer not to know. As to why they do it? Some people enjoy hurting others. Really there is no other reason I can think of. Probably some of those people feel bad about themselves so they make themselves feel better somehow by putting others down. The fact they don't put their name to it shows they're cowardly as well. Pretty pathetic if you ask me. I'm sure replying to these people fuels them, so replying is futile. Reading it only makes you feel like dirt, so reading it doesn't help anything anyway. I chose a long time ago to stay away from all of this. As a bullied kid at school I had had way my full.
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Post by Nicole on Mar 26, 2009 18:35:49 GMT -5
That's mean, there was a whole hate group that had over 20 members on this one girl from my school. It was mean, but her stupidity has gained her many enemies.
I stay away from facebook, even though I have an account, I only use it to view my friends pictures.
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Post by Tina ☺ on Mar 26, 2009 18:38:36 GMT -5
Jo is right and has a good point. It's not worth worrying about what a bunch of jerks say about you or the people you know online. YOU know the truth. Like Jo said, a reaction out of the people they diss is exactly what they're after. The are small, little people with small, little minds if they have nothing better to do than to derive pleasure out of trying to hurt others.
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lilyflower
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Post by lilyflower on Mar 26, 2009 18:39:43 GMT -5
That's probablly a good idea. But a lot of my friends are upset because people they might know have been calling them ugly and stuff and they don't know who. It's completely disheartening. I'll try staying away from it, that's probablly some good adivce.
Ouch. She reminds me of this girl at my school who everyone hates (Including me, but I have a legitimate reason. She said I had ADD, which I don't, and insulted my friends, whom I had to stand up for.) I kinda feel bad for her, but at the same time...grrr. I don't post stuff about her on the internet though.
EDIT: Heh I suppose I DID just post something about her. I meant like be a part of the hate forums and stuff. There are about eight "clubs" on Facebook that are dedicated to hating her.
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Post by §Haily§ on Mar 26, 2009 18:55:27 GMT -5
Here's what I say:
People who don't have a life to enjoy must get other people down so that they can seem happier than the people they put down.
Hey,it's true.Keep movin forward.I learned that the only way to stop that is to say something,calmly,about the situation.Me,see,I handle things the aggresive way which isn't all that smart.But the two days that I had been depressed because other people got involved in a situation that clearly just involved to people.My ex's ex girl friend and me.But somehow everyone got involved and started to say things that are not true!
Which means that someone in my school was "stirring the pot" and throwing people along with the "recipie" for disaster!
In other words,i know what you mean and I know why you would be angry.I almost killed(not literly) for someone saying that my best friend is a sl**.You know,the bad word for girls who sleep with other men.Yeah,that word.My friends were like,"It looked like you were going to kill him.Your face had 'death' smeared all over it." So I know what you mean,Lily.Been there, done that,and I'm not sure if it's going to end either.The world is a mean place with mean people along with it.That's what friends are there for.No matter what other people say about your friends,it doesn't mean it's true.All you gotta do is ignor it and say,"That's not true.I know my friends." So if you know it's not true,why get all mad? That's a lesson I learned the hard way.
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lilyflower
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Post by lilyflower on Mar 26, 2009 19:15:53 GMT -5
Aw Haily...that was really sweet and really good advice. Thanks a bunch!
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Post by §Haily§ on Mar 26, 2009 19:22:59 GMT -5
I tend to do that I'm here for anyone and at anytime too. Haily's free advice service! $50 dollars per word I say to ya
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Post by Nicole on Mar 26, 2009 19:40:36 GMT -5
OH MAN, I'm PISSED OFF... This kinda fits with the I wanna punch somebody... That show on Fox, Red Eye totally dissed Canadians, in a serverly unfunny way, like totally disrespectful. I can take a joke, but that was WAY too far.
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Post by §Haily§ on Mar 26, 2009 19:48:36 GMT -5
You know what.It's been a bad week for everyone.Let's all have ice cream and just be happy
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Post by jillyson on Mar 26, 2009 19:49:08 GMT -5
Good advice, Haily! Lock your friends pages so they are only veiwable by friends, and stay the heck out of the bathroom! It's a place created specifically for bullies.
Nicole, sorry to hear about that show dissing Cannucks! The only show that can do that is SouthPark! Lol! (I'm kidding - I SWEAR!) I love Canada! I wish I could visit there more often.
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Post by §Haily§ on Mar 26, 2009 19:50:24 GMT -5
Hmm,I have been to Canada THREE times. But just to go to this AWESOME zoo.
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Post by jillyson on Mar 26, 2009 19:53:48 GMT -5
My dh & I go to the Canadian side of the Falls every chance we get. I went to Toronto to see the Phantom of the Opera at the Pantages Theater. It's a beautiful city.
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lilyflower
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Post by lilyflower on Mar 26, 2009 20:02:29 GMT -5
Oooh I heard about that. Don't listen to that idiot, as Haily said you know the truth and us Americans wish we were as cool as Canada!
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Post by Nicole on Mar 26, 2009 20:08:19 GMT -5
Jilly, they weren't dissing teams, they were dissing military, culture, economy. You can youtube the video.
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