What to do when you're angry

[Tina ☺]

Wow, that's AWESOME, Jilly! I exalt you!

[joandsarah]

I'm sorry I haven't been over to look at this thread since the previous page.

I exalt you too Jilly!

[snazzyhack]

Haily, it's hard to see past the misery. If you make the choice to move on, you'll do it faster than you can realize. But making that decision is THE. HARDEST. PART. It's like losing weight. :-D

What do I do to relax? lol. I have two boys with autism- one severe- and one of their schools used to make me sooo anxious to deal with them. Not anymore. I have more stresses than that, but those are the biggies.

I knit. I started a little business selling my knitting and, very soon, baby quilts. I get out with my friends once in a while, or they come here. I gossip with them. We plant gardens in the spring, summer, and fall- both at our apartment and at my mom's house, about a mile away. I involve myself in creation, instead of destruction. It took me over 28 years to figure that one out. :-D (I'm 31 now)

Also, never lose faith; never lose hope. If you do that, you're boned. Even if you have to PRETEND to have faith it'll be okay, do that. If you believe your life will be good, it'll be good because you'll MAKE it good.

[Tina ☺]

Good post, Snazzy! I exalt you! ;D

[snazzyhack]

Thank you dahling.

[Tina ☺]

You're so very welcome... Dahling!

[lilyflower]

-Saluts Jilly-

Well said!

[§Haily§]

Thanks Jilly. That put a smile on my face. That is a good point!

And i need to update my list. Aw well,i'm too lazy to do it now and i have to work on homework! UGH!!!

Later i will update this thing

I don't know if someone already said this and i'm surprised that no one did yet if they haven't. PLAY THE SIMS!!! This is sort of mean but when i get mad at a person, i make their simselves than kill them. It prevents me from killing the actual person! I have done it to Megan before when she POed me off one day by not doing what i told her to do! So,i made her simself and than killed it. That sounds harsh i know but Megan started laughing at what i did than i started laughing than my room just filled with laughter. Megan and I don't usually stay mad long at each other because we're only one year apart!

[Tina ☺]

I've thought about making someone's simself and then killing it, but... I never have. As a matter of fact, I have a couple of simselves in my game right now that I've thought about killing...lol. I just don't have the heart and maybe I'm not mean-spirited enough to actually do it. Hmm, I think instead of killing them, I will just let them live out tough lives. I'll play them while trying to fufil as many of their fears as possible and ans few of their wants. hehehe... I could play an asylum challenge and stick them in it.

[§Haily§]

That's an idear! Megan would love that idea! She would surley stick me in an asylum then!

Nah.Megan and I had some fun times together don't we Megan

[jillyson]

Thanks, everyone! It took a long time to learn how to be that zen!
I exhault thee, Snazzy! Well done!
My dh (back when he played) would make a sim of his boss and the woman at work the boss was having an affair with. We used the tombstone of Life and Death, and would kill them in each way, not saving, and do it again!

You evil simmers are scaring the newbies from putting up their simselves for us! Lol! It's always the quiet ones... NOT!

[Tina ☺]

Hehehe.....

Actually, I'll have you know, I have NEVER maliciously killed a sim... in The Sims 2. Now, in the first sims, I did lock a few sims in rooms with fires, but only out of what I felt was necessity. It was Maxis' fault!

The game didn't allow you to go into lots without putting sims in them first and I was DYING to know what some of the mansions they had built looked like. I didn't know about the rosebud cheat yet, so... I made a 'black widow' sim who kept getting married for the guys' money and then they'd always meet with an unfortunate accident. Finally I pretty quickly got the money to move into the houses to have a look.

Ironically, the only time I felt really bad about it was not by killing the husbands, but once she got a husband I really liked, I let her keep him. But then she married another guy too and to get rid of him, I had the favorite husband fight him until he ran away from home. The way the poor guy looked so sad and was crying, I felt bad about it. Then he grabbed his little napsack and left.

[§Haily§]

TINA! And I thought I was evil!!

Yeah.Even though I already have a bf,i still really really really like my old one.And I dislike his girlfriend so i would make my ex bf and his new girlfriend and I would make them spouse. Then i would make me and make my ex bf fall in love with me and i'll have him kiss me right in front of his girlfriend.

if that isn't evil than i don't know what is!

[§Haily§]

Mar 16, 2009 9:05:40 GMT -5 snazzyhack said:

Haily, it's hard to see past the misery. If you make the choice to move on, you'll do it faster than you can realize. But making that decision is THE. HARDEST. PART. It's like losing weight. :-D

Also, never lose faith; never lose hope. If you do that, you're boned. Even if you have to PRETEND to have faith it'll be okay, do that. If you believe your life will be good, it'll be good because you'll MAKE it good.

I know.My mom thinks that i should move on too.and it is hard! And What I learned is that...here's a quote that is REALLY true...

"Trying to forget your true love is like remembering someone you never really knew!"

True that!

[Tina ☺]

Haily, you are MUCH too young too worry so much about some stupid boy! Trust me, it isn't worth it. Go out and enjoy being a kid while you can. Soon enough, you'll learn that you can only depend on yourself for true happiness in this world. Don't let it depend on someone else... ever.